Radha was a final year engineering student
who had been placed in one of the best MNCs in the country. There were just few
months for the college to get over and since it was the last semester the
bonding between her friends had increased. They would roam around in the campus
and spend most of the time in canteen. The last few days of engineering got
over with parties and fun. Till the last day everyone was busy filling up each
other’s scrap book; a token of remembrance for future. Finally the day arrived
when Radha was parting her ways with her friends with whom she had such a
wonderful time for 4 years. There were tears in everyone’s eyes and everyone
was hugging each other. This was the time they realized how much they would be
missing each other. From the college Radha went back to home.
Radha was 21 and she had completed her
engineering; she also had a job from campus. She full filled every
requirement for the search of the suitable groom. Somehow Radha was not ready for
marriage yet; as soon as she landed at her home the prospect of her marriage
started being discussed. Her father decided to create her bio data and start
the search for that suitable groom who will marry his daughter. There was a
detailed discussion with the relatives about how the search should begin and
before the search began there were suggestions of getting some beautiful
photographs.
Radha was informed that they would be going
to a studio where some professional photographs of her would be clicked in the
studio. She wore a light blue saree and did some light makeup and came out. Radha
was not at all interested in the studio drama but she did not have much
options. The studio person started asking her to give different poses;
instructions related to chin up or chin down; the place where she should keep
her hand; with all this drama Radha was just getting more irritated but she
could not show her irritation on her face. She quietly kept doing what her
parents wanted her to do and finally after an hour of photo sessions they left
the studio.
Next day Radha’s father brought the photographs
and showed it to her and her mother. She could see how much changes were made in
the photograph and how they had tried to show her more beautiful than she
actually was. Thanks to modern day tools such as photoshop which are helpful in
modifying the photographs but anyway her parents were happy so even she was
happy looking at the photograph. The next few days before her joining at the
company was tough as the only discussion which would happen in the house would
be related to her marriage. The prospective grooms and their details was what were
discussed at the house and Radha was desperately wishing to join her job and
runaway from this discussion.
Finally her date of joining arrived and
quick arrangements of travel were made. Her parents and her brother accompanied
her to the new city where she would be joining her job. On the way she was
given list of instructions about being aware of her colleagues with whom she
would be working; and the importance of performing well in the job. Her parents
accompanied her till the training center and since during the engineering days
Radha had stayed in the hostel she was not feeling much pain of separation;
still on the first night she decided to stay with her parents. She kept her
luggage in the hostel of the training center and went with her parents to their
place. Next day she got up early and rushed to the training center.
It was her first day at job; there were
around 200 other people along with her who were joining the job that day. She could
find some familiar faces from her college but she had never interacted with
them before. Now she was no more student but an employee and she felt excited
about the fact that she would be earning her own money. For one week induction
program of freshers at the company happened and then the training program
began. It was three month long training and Radha was pretty much engrossed in
her training; during her training period the discussions about marriage was not
happening much. Radha was relieved that she could completely concentrate on her
job.
Her training was over and her posting
location had arrived. Radha had to travel on diwali to Kolkata and this was the
first time she would not be at her home during diwali. Radha was bit sad but
she realized in job such situations will keep coming and she was going to miss
many more festivals in future. At the new place of her job there were no
projects so technically Radha was on bench. During her bench period she had
nothing much to do; she had made some good friends during her training days and
like her they were also on bench so they would mostly chat over the office communicator.
One year of her job got over and by now
Radha had got into a development project. She was enjoying her job and everyday
she was learning something new. Finally her father informed her about one
prospective groom whom she had to meet at Delhi. The bio data of the guy was
forwarded along with his photograph and Radha scanned the bio data there was
nothing much in the bio data except for the general details about his school, college, job and family. Date, time and
place for meeting were fixed and Radha along with her family would be meeting the guy and
his family. She had to travel down to Delhi as the guy worked at Delhi and his
family also stayed at Delhi.
Radha was feeling awkward and she had no
idea what she would be talking there; this was the first time she was actually
going to meet a guy with the prospect of marriage. She was asked to wear a
saree and she wore a saree. A restaurant was decided where the family would be
meeting. The families met at the decided venue; she was standing there tensed; everyone got
inside the restaurant and sat on the table. The parents began talking to each other but both
Radha and the guy were sitting down tensed and did not know how to start a
conversation. Finally the parents pushed them to talk and they started a
conversation. They discussed about their college; their job and then there was
silence. Finally Radha and the guy got to spend time alone and they were still
not sure as to what should they talk about. Her first meeting ended up with
nervousness and tension and a big question which Radha was asking herself was
she ready for marriage yet.
Anyhow Radha’s father called up guy’s family
and they said a sorry and made an excuse that the match did not fit well. They wished
her father all the best for future search. Radha’s father was a bit
disappointed and reasons for rejections were being discussed. Maybe it was a
problem with Radha’s teeth so it was decided that Radha would get braces and
get that perfect smile which would attract the guy.
Next few years went like this only where
Radha would meet a guy alone or along with his family and they would come up
with different excuses. ‘The girl is fat’,
‘she is not tall’, ‘she is not smart’, ‘sorry the kundali did not match’, and
host of other excuses. With every rejection there would be disappointment and
Radha would be upset thinking about how bad her parents would be feeling. Now the
meeting process was becoming unbearable for Radha and she was not sure what men
wanted in a wife. She thought it would be better if in this technology savvy
world a guy could interact with her over the phone or chat with her on internet
they could get a better understanding whether their frequencies matched or not.
Her father did not give up and kept on
searching for the suitable groom who matched his requirement. Radha was given a
detail of one guy who she had to meet and he worked at her city itself. Radha decided
to be casual herself and meet him the way she usually dresses up. Radha wore a
short kurta which was above her thighs along with a churidar. They were to meet
at a mall at 12 in the afternoon. She took her sling purse and left; by 12 she
reached the mall; she messaged on the number given by her father that she had
reached. The guy replied back that he was on his way and asked her to wait at
the entrance.
Radha was waiting at the entrance; looking
around at people and thinking did they know her purpose of visit at the mall. Anyway
she ignored them and finally one of the suitable grooms selected by her father
arrived. He went straight towards her and they exchanged ‘hi’ ‘hello’. They decided to go inside and sit in the foodcourt and
become more comfortable.
They started talking; they were all the
usual questions as to what do they; their hobbies; how do they spend their time
and finally it was time to get up and leave. They both started walking towards
the exit of the mall and found it was raining heavily. Neither Radha nor this
guy had brought an umbrella so they were stuck in the mall. They did not know
what to do now. Finally Niraj, that was the name of guy whom Radha was meeting,
said there was not much option but to wander around in the mall till it stopped
raining. But the question was where they should go; they hardly knew each other
and they decided to walk around the clothes department of the mall.
Finally Niraj asked Radha – “Do you watch
movies?”
Radha – “Yes. Why?”
Niraj – “I was thinking that we should go
for a movie till the rain does not stop only if you don’t mind.”
Radha – “Ok.”
They went up to the multiplex and booked
movie tickets for the next show. In the meantime they decided to have lunch
together and they took Indian meal from the foodcourt. Finally they went for
the movie and they had a good time together; they laughed; they passed comments
and they were not feeling that they were strangers. The movie was over and as
they came out it had stopped raining also. They both said a good bye and left
the mall.
Finally late at night Niraj messaged Radha –
“It was nice meeting you.”
Radha – “Same here I also had a good time.”
Niraj – “I was wondering if we could spend
some more time together.”
Radha – “Yeah sure that would be a good
idea.”
Niraj and Radha kept meeting, talking,
messaging each other for a month and finally they decided they would be getting
married. Niraj and Radha informed their parents about marrying each other. The families
were happy that finally their children will be getting married.
The marriage date was also decided and even on that day it
rained. It rained and Niraj and Radha remembered how they met each other; liked
each other and would be very soon married to each other. It rained and brought
happiness in the life of Niraj and Radha.
It kept raining and Niraj and Radha kept
looking into each other’s eyes as they got wet. Some rainfalls are hard to
forget.
P.S. Do you love rain?